There is a way to do things right and everyone can enjoy them, no guilt attach to them and many blessings are in them. How do we know what is right and what is wrong? Well, experience teaches us, but ideally, we learn it from our parents, and they should learn it from the Father of us all, who gave us the Bible – His Word – for instruction in everything that matters.
For example, “candies versus fruits.” If you offer a child a candy in one hand and some sweet fruit in the other, which one would the child choose? It depends! Spoiled taste buds would make it to go for a candy. Well, educated child would go for some fruit. Here is where parents, and grandmas especially, come in play. Their influence has a lifelong impact on their children, who compose our society!
When it comes to God-given sexuality, what is His norm, what is His ideal? One man and one woman who commit publicly to each other in a lifelong marriage. Gen 2:24.
But even within marriage God gave us a special instruction. Please, read Lev 15:28. After a week of menstruation, woman counts another seven days and then she resumes her intimacy with her husband. Jews call it a monthly honeymoon.
O, how many women would like this arrangement. But doctors say, this is beneficial not only for all married women but also for their husbands. Sperms concentrate the best of a man to “donate” for the future generation. If it is overused, it is depleted, and all these tiny trace minerals and other elements are starting to diminish and drain the man. Two weeks of abstinence while his wife goes through her cleansing period is a period for man to recover and maintain his health as well, especially the mental health. Listen to what doctor Nedley has to say on this topic:
Important note: when a woman will finish her cleansing period plus counting another seven days, she is most fertile and can have a baby. Western society does all it can to prevent it and if contraceptives didn’t work, abortion is a readily available option. Children are UNWANTED! Scary. God’s design is in the very first commandment in the Bible: Gen 1:28 BE FRUITFUL AND MUTIPLY. You may read this article – – Startling Contrast Between Western and Mediterranean Woman – showing that doctors also wonder if it is “normal” for a woman to bleed each year for full two months??? What a nightmare, while we could enjoy God’s blessings in our children as people did for almost past six thousand years.
Paul says in 1 Cor 7:5: Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control/incontinency.